Healing After Loss

Hey all- I am sad to report that I lost the baby. I started spotting early yesterday morning and spent the day in the Duluth ER. The ultrasound showed that the baby stopped growing a week ago. I am in a super weird emotional state right now, and so is Matt. We made the decision to tell some friends and family early, who are now grieving with us as well. I have to say... After two perfectly healthy babies and two easy pregnancies, I didn't think it could happen to me. However, thanks to the prayers of our loved ones, I am as peaceful as I can be. We named the baby Charlie. Although Charlie could be both a girls name (Charlotte) or a boy's. I have always felt in my heart that he was a boy, and going forward I will refer to him as such.